What is Chastity?

As I am myself celibate at the moment perhaps the concept of chastity is not relevant? but it is something that I wish to adhere to if I become sexually active. This concept of chastity has many different meanings for persons of different faiths... but for me it means not being free of desire, or having a low sex drive or anything nihilistic but it involves being full of sexual desire and capacity and vigour and appropriate lusts and lustiness but at the same time having the will and intention, fulfilled intention to not engage in any unchaste sex... chaste sex being sex, essentially "normal" penis to vagina sex, probably including oral to vaginal, where the persons invloved in the sex act are in a committed and loving relationship with each other... further for my practice the persons involved in the sex act shall include only one person of the masculine gender, and the female or females involved in the chaste sex act shall have this masculine person as the only person of the masculine gender with whom they have any sex relations during those months.

it is possible to elaborate further eg on the relations between the females present and other females that are with their masculine person that are not present, ie do those females need to be in a committed relationship with the female(s) present? these are questions that have not arisen in my practice as yet.

Study and Prayer Group

anyone interested?